Meditations · Part 1, Your own mind · Idea 4 of 12

You Can Only Lose Today

Marcus Aurelius on why the present is the only thing you can lose. From Meditations by Marcus Aurelius, about 175 AD.

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Where it comes from.

In 166, a plague reached Rome, carried, it was said, by soldiers coming home from a war in the East. It kept coming back for years.

The doctor Galen saw it up close. A Roman history of Marcus’s life says the dead were carried off in carts and wagons.

Thousands died, nobles among them. Long and short lives ended side by side.

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Marcus Aurelius wrote in years of war, with a plague that kept returning across the empire. In his notebook he argued that whether you live three thousand years or a few, you only ever lose the present, because the past and future are not yours to lose. Even men who clung to life were buried in the end.

The past is gone and the future isn’t here, so today is all you can lose. Practical advice: when regret about lost years keeps you up, spend the next hour on something you value.

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Make it yours.

Make it your step

Spend the next hour on one thing you’d be glad you did.

Ask your council

“I keep thinking about the years I wasted. How do I stop mourning time I can’t get back?”

Sources.

  1. The Thoughts of the Emperor Marcus Aurelius Antoninus, translated by George Long, Marcus Aurelius (Project Gutenberg), 1862The text
  2. Antonine Plague, Wikipedia, 2026
  3. Marcus Aurelius, Wikipedia, 2026
  4. Historia Augusta: The Life of Marcus Aurelius, translated by David Magie, Historia Augusta (LacusCurtius), 1921The text

Meditations, in 12 ideas.

  1. 1
    Take Back the VerdictMarcus Aurelius on why the hurt is in your judgment, not the thing
  2. 2
    The Retreat InsideMarcus Aurelius on finding quiet in your own mind
  3. 3
    Use the RoadblockMarcus Aurelius on turning what blocks you into help
  4. 4
    You Can Only Lose TodayMarcus Aurelius on why the present is the only thing you can lose
  5. 5
    Get Up for the WorkMarcus Aurelius on getting out of bed when you don’t want to
  6. 6
    Stop Debating, Be ItMarcus Aurelius on being good instead of talking about it
  7. 7
    Don’t Get Dyed PurpleMarcus Aurelius on not letting power change you
  8. 8
    Look Down From AboveMarcus Aurelius on seeing your worries from a height
  9. 9
    Expect the ShamelessMarcus Aurelius on dealing with people who behave badly
  10. 10
    Don’t Become What Hurt YouMarcus Aurelius on the best kind of revenge
  11. 11
    List Who Made YouMarcus Aurelius on naming what you owe to each person
  12. 12
    Kindness Can’t Be BeatenMarcus Aurelius on why sincere kindness is hard to defeat
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