Meditations · Part 2, The day’s work · Idea 6 of 12

Stop Debating, Be It

Marcus Aurelius on being good instead of talking about it. From Meditations by Marcus Aurelius, about 175 AD.

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In 176, on his way home from the East, Marcus Aurelius stopped in Athens. He set up paid teachers there for the four great schools of philosophy.

Talk about the good life was in fashion. The historian Cassius Dio says many people pretended to study it. With a philosopher on the throne, they hoped it would make them rich.

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In 176 Marcus Aurelius paid teachers for the four schools of philosophy in Athens, at a time when, Dio says, many pretended to study it for profit. In his own notebook he told himself to stop talking about what a good man should be, and be one. His days in court, up to eleven or twelve on a single case, showed what he meant.

Nobody needs your theory of a good person; they need the person. Practical advice: pick one virtue you talk about, and practice it once today without mentioning it.

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Make it yours.

Make it your step

Pick one kind thing you often talk about, and do it today, quietly.

Ask your council

“I know how I should treat my family, but I keep falling short. How do I actually live it?”

Sources.

  1. The Thoughts of the Emperor Marcus Aurelius Antoninus, translated by George Long, Marcus Aurelius (Project Gutenberg), 1862The text
  2. Roman History, Book 72, translated by Earnest Cary, Cassius Dio (LacusCurtius), 1927The text
  3. Lives of the Sophists, translated by Wilmer Cave Wright, Philostratus (Loeb Classical Library), 1922The text
  4. Marcus Aurelius, Wikipedia, 2026

Meditations, in 12 ideas.

  1. 1
    Take Back the VerdictMarcus Aurelius on why the hurt is in your judgment, not the thing
  2. 2
    The Retreat InsideMarcus Aurelius on finding quiet in your own mind
  3. 3
    Use the RoadblockMarcus Aurelius on turning what blocks you into help
  4. 4
    You Can Only Lose TodayMarcus Aurelius on why the present is the only thing you can lose
  5. 5
    Get Up for the WorkMarcus Aurelius on getting out of bed when you don’t want to
  6. 6
    Stop Debating, Be ItMarcus Aurelius on being good instead of talking about it
  7. 7
    Don’t Get Dyed PurpleMarcus Aurelius on not letting power change you
  8. 8
    Look Down From AboveMarcus Aurelius on seeing your worries from a height
  9. 9
    Expect the ShamelessMarcus Aurelius on dealing with people who behave badly
  10. 10
    Don’t Become What Hurt YouMarcus Aurelius on the best kind of revenge
  11. 11
    List Who Made YouMarcus Aurelius on naming what you owe to each person
  12. 12
    Kindness Can’t Be BeatenMarcus Aurelius on why sincere kindness is hard to defeat
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