Letters from a Stoic · Part 3, Other people · Idea 11 of 12

Keep a Witness in Mind

Seneca on living as if a good person were watching. From Letters from a Stoic by Seneca, about 62 to 65 AD.

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One day Seneca had a talk with a young friend of Lucilius. The young man spoke well. But when he was caught off guard, he blushed deep red.

Seneca took it as a good sign. No amount of wisdom can stop a blush, he wrote to Lucilius.

Then, to close the letter, he passed on a motto from Epicurus.

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Closing his eleventh letter, Seneca passed on Epicurus’s advice: keep a person of good character before your eyes, and live as if they were watching. Choose a Cato, he said, or the gentler Laelius. Romans told how a crowd at the games of Flora was too ashamed to misbehave while Cato the Younger sat watching.

Live as if someone good were watching, until you become that someone. Practical advice: pick one person whose respect you want, and picture them before a hard choice.

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Make it yours.

Make it your step

Choose one person you respect, and picture them watching your next hard choice.

Ask your council

“When no one is watching, I cut corners I’m not proud of. How do I stop?”

Sources.

  1. Moral Letters to Lucilius, Letter 11: On the blush of modesty, translated by Richard M. Gummere (Loeb, vol. 1), Seneca (Wikisource), 1917The text
  2. Moral Letters to Lucilius, Letter 25: On reformation, translated by Richard M. Gummere (Loeb, vol. 1), Seneca (Wikisource), 1917The text
  3. Moral Letters to Lucilius, Letter 97: On the degeneracy of the age, translated by Richard M. Gummere (Loeb, vol. 3), Seneca (Wikisource), 1925The text
  4. Facta et Dicta Memorabilia, Book 2 (Latin text), Valerius Maximus (The Latin Library), 30The text
  5. Cato the Younger, Wikipedia, 2026
  6. Epistulae Morales ad Lucilium, Wikipedia, 2026
  7. Floralia, Wikipedia, 2026

Letters from a Stoic, in 12 ideas.

  1. 1
    Everywhere Is NowhereSeneca on reading a few books deeply
  2. 2
    You Pack Yourself TooSeneca on why a trip can’t cure a restless mind
  3. 3
    The Crowd Comes Home With YouSeneca on how the company you keep changes you
  4. 4
    You Can’t Hire WisdomSeneca on why no one can be wise for you
  5. 5
    Rehearse the Lean DaysSeneca on living poor for a few days to shrink the fear of it
  6. 6
    One Night Is All It TakesSeneca on expecting sudden change so it cannot ambush you
  7. 7
    Walk, Don’t Be DraggedSeneca on going willingly where life will take you anyway
  8. 8
    Let the Memory Turn SweetSeneca on grieving a friend and remembering them with gladness
  9. 9
    Choose Slowly, Then TrustSeneca on judging a friend before you trust them
  10. 10
    To Be Loved, LoveSeneca on how to make friends and why to want them
  11. 11
    Keep a Witness in MindSeneca on living as if a good person were watching
  12. 12
    How You Treat Those Who ServeSeneca on treating the people below you as people
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